A question posed to the group by Sri Vasudeva:

Would you be happy if you remained silent in the group just observing or would you be happier speaking and everyone was silent, really listening?

A really nice test would be to enjoy just listening without speaking (sometimes). Where you could really identify with everyone and feel that everyone’s opinion is really yours. Look at the whole dynamic and feel fulfilled just by hearing people’s expressions and knowing that it is a part of myself. That’s a very powerful strategy. Because then in a way everybody has to become yourself. You have to fully be with the person and enjoy the person’s contribution.